Everything you need to know about getting engaged

Written by HeBe

You're in love. The big question is..... Will you marry me? And the answer is ........Yes!

And that's the easy part! Next comes the engagement and then the wedding. So much to decide, to choose, to organise. Isn't it exciting?

Take it one step at a time. First, the engagement and choosing a ring. This is an important step, it has to be right, this is a token of love, a betrothal promise, a vow to share your future together.

And for this once in a lifetime occasion, nothing does it like a diamond. Set in white gold, platinum or fine yellow gold, there are endless styles to choose from. A simple solitaire, pure and sparkling is hard to beat. If you're choosing the ring together, you can try on different styles and find out which looks the most fabulous. Remember that the wedding band comes next so make sure they will fit snugly together.

I chose a ruby and diamond engagement ring and lots of girls find the coloured gemstones especially romantic. A blue sapphire set with diamonds has a wonderful dreamlike quality whilst a pink sapphire promises the best of happiness. It's all down to your personal choice and whatever fills your heart with joy. Diamonds and gemstones have a special aura and are filled with meaning and significance. A diamond is an unalterable crystal formation and unique in its composition. It has taken millions of years to form and will last for all eternity. What better symbol of your love. When you’re looking at rings, let your mind be free and ‘go’ to the ring that attracts you most - it’s an intuitive choice. You’ll know it’s the right ‘one’ when it slips on to your ring finger!

How much will getting engaged cost?

You can spend however much you like or can afford. How often do you get engaged? You will buy your new bride many rings throughout your life together but this first one is a special token of your love and your willingness to devote yourselves to each other. You will look at this lovely ring every day of your life, it’s a symbol of your happiness and the eternal feelings you have for one another. What price is there on romance? So, to some extent, the price is immaterial, it’s the ring and the perfection of the diamond that counts. For this extra special occasion, get the best you can possibly afford. You are at the beginning of a journey together and your betrothal ring is a part of your future lives together. Such happiness is beyond price.

Should getting engaged be a suprise?

Hmm. This is a difficult one. If you are really, really sure that you know your loved one’s taste and what will suit her, then what could beat a romantic evening, candles, moonlight, champagne and ....open the ring box.... Perhaps you’ll have looked at some rings together already. You know that she prefers a trinity of diamonds – expensive girl! Or that a square cut brilliant set in white gold is the one. If you have a clear idea, then go for it. You can easily get the size right by ‘borrowing’ one of her existing rings. Hebe will be pleased to size it for you and all our engagement rings come in beautiful hand made wooden boxes lined with silk – the perfect showcase for a special item.

But if you have any doubts at all, then pop the question and suggest that you choose the ring together. You can even send off for a copy ring to try on first – this will be a solid 9ct gold to a design of your choice – and can be set with a cubic zirconia stone. When you’ve settled on the ‘right’ style and size of gem for you, then you can order the real thing with confidence, knowing that the brilliance and sparkle of your 18ct gold or platinum and diamonds will be breathtaking.

Choosing the Diamon Engagement Ring

This is where a little expert advice on choosing your diamond engagement ring can make all the difference. There's a lot to take into account and our diamond resource center should help put you on the right track - if not give us a call and our engagement and wedding ring experts will guide you through it. At Hebe all the diamonds are hand picked and are guaranteed certified grades. These are not High Street mass products. The quality and brilliance is unmistakeable.

They are also conflict free which is an important ethical consideration. The cut, the colour, the clarity and the carat weight are up to you to choose. We can offer diamonds and rings to suit every taste and budget. Sometimes a cluster of diamonds or with a sapphire centrepiece is absolutely right. A heart shaped diamond is unusual and sure to attract attention. A scattering of ‘stardust’ diamonds on a narrow yellow gold band. The princess cut is truly fabulous. Tell us your ideas and we will find the ring for you. It’s your choice, your moment, a Hebe engagement ring will be as special and unique as you are.